Tribe.net. Local Connections w http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#87e02381-4491-4462-b6c6-367517e926c9 2009-06-29T17:29:56Z 2009-06-29T17:29:56Z

I prefer to be alone actually. I actually know people who have to have someone with them at all times and I really can't relate at all. Maybe my Cap sun or Scor Mars squashing my Lib moon?

w 2009-06-29T17:29:56Z cancer_libra_4 http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#eb57e1bd-a3be-4826-b974-2c08e9c094d0 2009-06-18T02:26:05Z 2009-06-18T02:26:05Z

This is really interesting. Sometimes I feel like I am two different people; I want to be alone, but then I 'need' to feel that someone I love is 'nearby.' I am not a 'touchy-feely' person, although Cancers are supposed to be kind of that way, but when my husband tries to be that way himself, I sometimes push him away quietly (not in a mean way). I don't know if that's a Libran trait. I am definitely a 'homebody', but sometimes when I want to go somewhere, I do like to have my hubby to come with me. I think that's because he translates different ideas to me with what's going on around us when we're out together, which intrigues me. He's not a boring person and brings up ideas that makes me think about things in positive ways. He has a Harley now, so we are usually going out to ride together on the weekends and get most of our errands done together, which makes me very happy to spend that time with him which makes me feel deeply content. When he's at work and I am at home (I am training to work from home as a Medical Transcriptionist, furthering my education from being an Admin.) I look forward to him calling me during the day to check how I am (I know that he's just taking a break from work so he likes to check in with me). I like that closeness. I wonder, also, if explaining my thoughts in detail, as I have above, is a Libran trait? I am a very quiet person when I am around other people, friends, family, but I am more 'open' when I am sending e-mails or posting blogs :).

cancer_libra_4 2009-06-18T02:26:05Z $item.owner.firstName http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#45881256-77a5-4b90-95c6-ec46e769c92f 2007-10-14T08:29:31Z 2007-10-14T08:29:31Z

I have a libra moon, but my aquarius sun appreciates my alone time.

$item.owner.firstName 2007-10-14T08:29:31Z christina http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#76cb9162-a07c-4399-914d-399a611cae0d 2007-10-01T18:35:00Z 2007-10-01T18:35:00Z

what're your other signs?

christina 2007-10-01T18:35:00Z $item.owner.firstName http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#24dc7544-5892-4d46-8eba-2e3de2d39069 2007-10-01T16:32:26Z 2007-10-01T16:32:26Z

I can't say i'm like this. I have my moon sun mercury and uranus in Libra. I prefer solitude in many aspects, such as unwind and "balance" my thougts, etc. I've always been shy and hate walking into a room full of strangers...(oh no their looking at me and judging me...i hate that). However, I can go anywhere alone and be okay. It is weird to me that on the one side of the "scale" I would hate to walk in a party "alone ( I identify here ) and on the other side I can go shopping, walking, workshops, etc all alone and be alright with it. Maybe it's the balance of the Libra?

$item.owner.firstName 2007-10-01T16:32:26Z $item.owner.firstName http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#eb4f90dc-bdfc-44ed-99c9-ace8bf00507d 2007-10-01T08:38:01Z 2007-10-01T08:38:01Z

I know exactly.

$item.owner.firstName 2007-10-01T08:38:01Z Scasco http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#667472d1-2b80-4682-9963-341cd3d59ca4 2007-09-30T01:53:40Z 2007-09-30T01:53:40Z

Another important thing I forgot to mention last time around: Libra is a *far* more complicated sign in it's representation than most astrologers give it credit for. It's never quite as simple as statements like "Libras love relationships and partnerships, " or "Libras are quite nice, and avoid all conflict." There are a select few places where I seen, in my opinion, more insightful, in-depth descriptions of the sign that I would call *great*. Below is one of them. I can't remember which site this came from, though. I may post another one of my favorite descriptions on this sign a little later. You can also apply the following descriptions for Libra moons (as opposed to just Libra Sun.): Libra, the seventh sign of the zodiac, is ruled by the planet Venus and symbolized by the Scales of Balance. In Roman mythology, Venus was recognized as the goddess of love and beauty. Similarly, the natives of Libra are the very personification of refinement and affection, endearing you with their genteel manner and melting your heart with their ingratiating smiles. With all the sugary sweetness of a box of chocolate Bordeaux cremes or the enchanting fragrance of a fresh-picked bouquet of daisies, the Libran personality blossoms forth, leaving proclamations of love, tokens of affection, and a host of smiles in its wake. Such may be your first impression of the indomitable Libran charm, but don't let all that sugar and spice fool you. October-born can be as quarrelsome, as irritable, as intractable as any sign in the zodiac, and then some. Sound a little confusing? It is at first, but not after you understand the subtly paradoxical nature of this Sun sign. Libra, you see, is the sign of balance, and just as a set of pharmaceutical scales will teeter back and forth before achieving a new balance, October-born will vaccinate to and fro between extremes— mental, emotional or physical— until they achieve the harmony they seek. Just tilt their scales out of balance by playing your radio too loudly or by puffing your cigarette too profusely in their direction, and these natives can turn from peace-loving doves into cantankerous crocodiles. When everything is in harmony, however, there is nothing quite like the Libran's congenial charm. Just watch your Libran friend closely next time, and you will invariably catch his subtle balancing act. You can almost see his mental see-saw in action as he carefully surveys a situation or problem. His eyes will move back and forth, much like the inertial swing of his zodiacal symbol, as he considers the pros, the cons, the maybe's and the possibilities, all with intelligence, exacting logic, and painstaking perseverance. Don't expect him to give you the fruit of his mental efforts right away. The Libran will have to mull it over in his mind a while, making sure he has considered all the facts and that no stone has been left unturned which could affect his final analysis. When he does make a decision, however, you can probably bank on it for its correctness and integrity as a judgement based on a fair evaluation of the facts. As polar opposite of the subjective Aries, the Libran is quite capable of objective judgement, irrespective of his own tastes, mores, philosophy, or preferences. Perhaps this is why there are more judges born under Libra than under any zodiacal sign and why the Scales have come to represent our system of justice. Whoever came up with the phrase, "Better weigh your words carefully," must surely have been talking about a Libran, for October-born are forever doing just that. For one thing, the mental scales they constantly carry with them certainly make them equipped for the job, and you'll rarely see a native who isn't using them to the fullest. When in an argument, for example, the Libran will not only weigh his own words, but he'll weigh his opponent's too. He'll know just how much force to apply in his favor so as not to cause his opponent to balk and throw the whole matter out the window. In business, diplomatic relations, or in negotiating of any kind, this can be a most valuable asset, for the Libran is able to accomplish what he desires without destroying a relationship which could be valuable to him in the future. It is little wonder then, that so many public relations people, diplomats, politicians and statesman are born under this sign. The Libran flair for tact and diplomacy is unparalleled in the zodiac, but the ease with which they pursue their argumentative techniques can sometimes make you wonder where they really stand. If you argue the need for relief to the starving throngs in Africa, your Libran friend might purposely take the opposing view, stating that giving food only perpetuates the problem, and the programs of education and agricultural reform are too long-range to provide real answers to the people's immediate needs. If, on the other hand, you were to take the position that relief should be abandoned, that same Libran friend would argue that ultimately the problem of hunger could be solved if the programs of education and reform were implemented simultaneously with immediate relief, and that work begun now could be of help to future generations. The task of sorting out the Libran's true feelings or motives can sometimes be a dizzying prospect. Too often they are accused of being wishy-washy, two-faced or without moral values, but in reality they are just trying to balance out their scales, and yours too. Nothing irritates the Libran's harmonizing intellect more than thinking which is narrow or one-dimensional. If they think your line of reasoning is too pat or simplistic, they'll purposely take the opposing view just to correct any incongruities in your thinking and to put things in a more balanced perspective. Being able to see both sides of a situation, the Libran sometimes finds it difficult to make a solid commitment one way or the other, and his stand on issues may be only temporary or serving his immediate needs. His own true feelings he may keep in abeyance, awaiting further input which could again tip his scales to the opposite view. These qualities will make him seem very much the procrastinator, and you may have a difficult time getting a unconditional opinion from him one way or the other. If a woman were to ask her Libran husband which dress she should wear to a formal function, he might reply, "Well, the red one goes well with your hair, and the blue one goes well with your eyes, but they might be too gaudy for a formal affair. The green one is subtle enough, but it might clash with my blue shirt. Come to think of it, maybe the blue one will be alright... or maybe the beige would be better." She might as well have saved her breath. True, she will have heard every possible argument for wearing each style of apparel, but by the time this son of Venus had balanced his scales over the matter, the function might be half over. Librans seem not to have so much respect for time as natives of their zodiacal predecessor, Virgo. They understand perhaps too well the meaning of being fashionably late, but unless there's a Virgo or Gemini Ascendant, their tardiness can begin to wear like last year's fashions. Sometimes their tendency to procrastinate can draw out for years what other signs could accomplish in two or three months. That room addition which has stood in different stages of incompletion for the past year or that unfinished patio are projects which may have fallen prey to a Libran's indecision, but rest assured when they are finally finished, they'll be sterling testimonials to the Venusian sense of beauty, balance and style. 'Lazy Libra' is a phrase common in astrological vernacular, but those who would ascribe laziness to October-born have never seen them in their more productive moods. Once their scales have stopped dipping to and fro, and they have committed themselves to a goal, Librans can become powerhouses, using their well-ordered intellects to accomplish in leaps and bounds tasks that might encumber other signs. Once they're motivated, they'll burn the candle at both ends, working tirelessly if necessary, to achieve their avowed goals. The trouble is that in planning any endeavor, October-born can get so lost in the endless labyrinth of strategies, factors and options which have to be weighed and evaluated by their logical minds, that they'll put off starting until it becomes old hat. A Libran in this state of procrastination can give you the best portrayal of laziness you've ever seen. He'll watch TV, yawn, stretch, and then lie down as if half-exhausted all with such convincing lassitude, it'll make you tired just watching him. He's not as idle as he looks, mind you. Though he may not be moving a muscle, his mental scales are busy weighing strategies for his next burst of activity. The Libran obsession with balancing can be as much a hindrance as it is a help to these natives, on the one hand serving as protection against impulsiveness and error, but on the other, providing an all too easy excuse to avoid getting things done. Fortunately, Librans ultimately appeal to their sense of logic, realizing that thoughts must be balanced by action, and these natives will apply themselves to their tasks, accomplishing much in spite of themselves. When it comes to the subject of love, Librans are on home turf indeed. Loving has been second nature to these individuals ever since they could say "goo" or manage a smile. Venus herself smiles beneficently upon October-born imparting her qualities of loveliness and charm, and these individuals seem to have an instinctive knack for winning your heart. They'll know just how to woo you as the object of their affection, lavishing you with thoughtful presents, reciting exquisite lines of verse (which they've probably written themselves), or whispering sweet nothings to you in the wee hours of the morning. A few select words from the natives of Venus can be more devastating on the battleground of love than real gunpowder, and many a lover has fallen captive to their seductive charms. The recipient of Libran affection, however, can do well to be wary. For all their adeptness at love, Librans can sometimes proffer more fluff than powder, more perfume than substance, and their romancing can amount to many superficial trappings of love rather than real love itself. October-born are well aware of their adeptness as lovers, and they may find the prospect of testing their prowess on the opposite sex now and then irresistible. Although Librans seem to possess the natural equipment for loving, they have by no means cornered the market on love, which belongs to all signs.

Scasco 2007-09-30T01:53:40Z David ♥ Air http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#0ada4245-ac5c-487d-b5f5-7879a2c12f06 2007-09-28T20:58:57Z 2007-09-28T20:58:57Z

Libra and Libra Moon, above all other things is socially oriented and the most inclined to seek out and establish partnerships/relationships. There is however a big distinction between what we may be calling "dependency" and a psychological condition called co-dependency. Libra Moon loves being with people, the social give and take feeds our psyche, it's when someone just can't ever be alone - that can potentially become troublesome and give the impression of "dependency." It really helps to know what House and Decan your Libra Moon resides in, before making blanket generalizations. For example, a Libra Moon in the 3rd House (ruled by Gemini) with Leo Ascendant would be COMPLETELY and EXTREMELY different than a Libra Moon in the 10th House (Capricorn) with say a Taurus Ascendant. So different in fact, that these two Libra Moons would have very little emotional connection in common! The Sun's placement determines your energy and vitality, the Moon's placement determines your emotional content and outlook and the Ascendant reflects your personality. :)(: Hope this illuminates some of the distinctions in Astrology! :)(:

David ♥ Air 2007-09-28T20:58:57Z a.lucia http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#b6d8b067-b81e-4189-87e4-111ade8218d4 2007-09-28T20:25:54Z 2007-09-28T20:25:54Z

How do you know which decan you are? And what are the differences?

a.lucia 2007-09-28T20:25:54Z $item.owner.firstName http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#9f846fa4-1cab-4376-ae43-89643f0e2ada 2007-09-28T09:21:41Z 2007-09-28T09:21:41Z

I don't know. I do like company in the right places, but then I do like to be alone at other times as well. I am a second decan Libra Moon and Sun.

$item.owner.firstName 2007-09-28T09:21:41Z Scasco http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#af5d4574-3a24-4b2f-8536-a5ce4cd2eabb 2007-09-28T06:43:37Z 2007-09-28T06:43:37Z

I guess it all depends on the person. It could also depend on other factors in the person's chart. In truth, I have seen, and known quite a bit of Libra moons who are constantly in relationships - if one ends, they will quickly try to get involved with another - and don't seem to be too comfortable alone, which would suggest that there is quite a bit of truth to your post, not to mention the countless astrologers who assess that most Libras (Suns or Moons) have a hard time being alone. I myself am a Libra Sun and Libra Moon, but I don't share much kinship with many other Libra moons in the sense that I'm far more of an independent loner, often spending more time alone, than I do socializing, not to mention that I also am one who can only take, but so much of "small talk" and other such stuff. These contradictions in my own character could be due to my Scorpio ascendant, and Pluto conjunct both my natal Sun and Moon signs. Don't get me wrong, I like hanging out with friends and stuff, and I can be fairly communicative with a few strangers here and there, but I'm not one to waste time with excessive, pointless socializing. There has to be some kind of purpose for it.

Scasco 2007-09-28T06:43:37Z christina http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#33b7a980-6679-45b3-bfb5-874775e0765b 2007-09-27T17:48:49Z 2007-09-27T17:48:49Z

definatley wrong. I am a gemini sun and I am more interested in what everyone else is doing but, I do like to keep to myself in my head and not let anyone know what I am thinking. It's just fun, and not to mention safe. Also, that whole you'd rather be alone than talking with fake people (jist).. such a scorpio thing. I am the same way, and I hate em. Thanks for your input

christina 2007-09-27T17:48:49Z Hannah http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#5875707f-75fd-4a89-8a16-20de37a6df0b 2007-09-27T08:26:27Z 2007-09-27T08:26:27Z

Oh, I`m the same! And I think I`ve read that this is a Libra thing. I love having company anywhere I go and anything I do. It`s about sharing the experience and communication. And, even if I`m alone, and provided I`m not in a real bad mood, I find people to talk to. And for me, I see almost anything as a lil advanture. Keeps life interesting. No mather wether it`s going to cinema, going to an exhibition, hiking, window-shopping...Anything shared with friends, and especially with the man I love, I great. I also just love being a hostess and bringing people together. On the other hand, the few people I meet and I don`t like them, I cannot bring myself to interact with them. It has to be genuine communication. I`d rather be alone then be with pretentious bullshitters...but that`s a whole other story and probably has something to do with my Scorpio Sun. Maybe you are an introvert and your darlin` is an extrovert. Introverts need much more time on their own to recharge and us extroverts are always up for communication. Not that any of the two modes is better than the other, it`s just a different function. I`ve got lots of introverts around me, so I learned to understand the different needs we have. Best, H

Hannah 2007-09-27T08:26:27Z christina http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#7378c079-7a60-434d-8bed-e2b5b4aeb6ef 2007-09-27T02:50:39Z 2007-09-27T02:50:39Z

well i asked my boyfriend (libra moon) why he didn't like to be alone and his repsonse was "cus i get bored" i'm very independent (prob. scorp moon) and i like to be alone. I also work better alone. this interests me.

christina 2007-09-27T02:50:39Z a.lucia http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#fee803c2-4767-41ac-8a2c-91e6059c8a19 2007-09-26T23:51:25Z 2007-09-26T23:51:25Z

hmmm not sure if this would be a libra moon quality...but it is definitely true of me. I won't go anywhere alone, the gym, the store, the gas station, if possible I want someone in the car with me at all times. It's annoying, especially the gym, cause I wish I could just pick up and go whenever I feel like it. But I know I would get bored without someone to connect with and I would want to leave. Not sure if I would call it dependency though, it's strange....I'm gonna look into whether that is libra related...

a.lucia 2007-09-26T23:51:25Z christina http://libramoon.tribe.net/thread/f324f5d5-dcd8-407f-990f-7c8188f29720#c93dfabe-4b5f-49e7-af86-d4bc8e5c308c 2007-09-26T03:22:59Z 2007-09-26T03:22:59Z

Most libra moons i know don't like to be alone. Why is this?

christina 2007-09-26T03:22:59Z