I have had long-term romantic relationships with a Libra, a Taurus, a Virgo, two Cancers and now a Leo and sometimes a Virgo. I fought extensively with the Libra, the first Virgo and the Cancers. So far have had the most peace with the Taurus (although he ended up boring me) and the Leo, believe it or not! We have not had one argument in the six months we have been together! Amazing to me! He is very much a take-charge person and will take over things I don't want to do without trying to make me more responsible as others have. But if I want to take charge, he is open to that. I think it works for him because I let him take charge most of the time which he likes. I think it works for me because I can sit back and dream, but if I really feel strong about something he doesn't fight me about it.

For my friends, I enjoy Pisces the most. Feel most myself with them. But I treasure also my Capricorn friends for the grounding they offer. I have a very dynamic relationship with a Scorpio woman who likes to take charge, who doesn't force me to make choices if I don't want to, yet who is open when I do want to make the choices.

Does any of this make any sense. What I've found about me and relationships is there is no real pattern. It's like each person I meet brings out another side of me that is longing to come out.

Thanks for asking! This is interesting stuff to consider.